We honeymooned in Greece, and started talking about having a baby. While gay marriage wasn’t yet passed in New York, let alone nationwide, we were able to have a legal ceremony because he was now legally male. Two months after that, he proposed.īy the following summer, we were married in front of family and friends. But the pull to be together was stronger than any of the obstacles, and within four months he applied to and was accepted to graduate school in New York, moved in with me and had gender reassignment surgery.